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 Who I Work With


I work with adults, teens, and relationship configurations navigating identity, emotion, and connection. My practice centers those who often feel “too much” or “not enough” — people moving through trauma, transition, or the challenges of being human in systems not built for everyone.

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  • Neurodivergent clients including those who identify with or beyond labels like Autism, ADHD, or other forms of cognitive and sensory diversity — seeking affirming, strengths-based support and practical tools for regulation, communication, and self-understanding.

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  • Queer, trans, and gender-expansive individuals exploring identity, belonging, expression, and safety within themselves and their communities.

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  • People healing from trauma, complex PTSD, and attachment wounds, working toward greater stability, self-trust, and integration.

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  • Individuals navigating depression, anxiety, or emotional intensity, learning to regulate, understand, and honor their emotions while cultivating resilience.

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  • Those in recovery from substance use or relational patterns of avoidance and control, approaching sobriety or harm reduction through compassion and accountability.

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  • First responders and military veterans processing PTSD, moral injury, and reintegration with care and structure.

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  • People who have experienced incarceration, rebuilding stability, identity, and community after systemic harm.

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  • Relationship configurations and counterparts (monogamous, non-monogamous, polyamorous, co-parenting, or chosen family systems) seeking communication, repair, balance, and a sense of security in connection.

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​How I Work

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Relational & Collaborative
Therapy with me is not a blank slate — it’s a relationship built on trust, curiosity, and mutual respect. I show up as a real person, engaged and attuned, offering both compassion and gentle challenge when needed. Together, we’ll explore patterns, meaning, and possibility in ways that feel grounding and empowering.

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Body-Based & Trauma-Informed
We’ll pay attention to your nervous system, the sensations in your body, and how your emotions move through you. I use grounding, breathwork, and somatic tracking to help you build regulation and deepen self-awareness without overwhelming your system.

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Parts Work & Integration
Drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and ego-state work, we’ll explore the different parts of you — the protectors, the wounded, the resilient — so you can better understand their roles and integrate them with compassion.

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Systems-Based & Context-Aware
Our stories don’t exist in isolation. I bring a systemic lens that honors how family, culture, neurotype, and systems of power shape our experiences. I strive to hold therapy as a space of accountability, equity, and liberation.

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Balancing Acceptance and Change
I support clients in finding a rhythm between acceptance — meeting yourself as you are — and change — moving toward what feels aligned, intentional, and free.

Contact

Healing doesn’t have to happen alone. If you’re ready to start therapy or simply curious about whether this space could be a fit, let’s connect.

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To inquire about scheduling a free consultation, click the contact button below.

AJ Sadler (they/them)

Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #157238

Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor #20234

(Licensed under the name Amanda Jane Sadler)

​Practicing under the supervision of Rayne Banneck, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #124607), under the auspices of Grateful Heart Holistic Therapy Center.

Available Mon-Thursday: 10am-6pm
Evening availability is limited and may vary

Contact:

(408) 898-1966

Serving clients across California via Telehealth

Please note: Email and voicemail are used for scheduling and administrative communication only and are not monitored continuously. For urgent matters, please call 911 or 988, or go to your nearest hospital.

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